Before writing our final blogs, Harriet and I spent some time reading our previous blogs and we found ourselves reminding each other of the experiences we’ve had and the people we’ve met. It’s strange how quickly you forget some of the random things that happen and it was really nice to go back and remember them. We have so many stories from our time here in Livingstone and I hope we will both still be telling them in many years to come. Blogging has been a brilliant way of sharing some of our experiences, and there are many more funny, happy, sad, emotional and amazing stories to be told, and also some which are best kept until I am safely back in Northern Ireland and my parents have stopped worrying about me being away!
When it actually came to saying goodbye to Livingstone this
week, I expressed quite a lot of emotions. I went from feeling sad about saying
goodbye to people, to stressed out about getting everything to fit in my
rucksack, to being a little in denial and deciding that I was actually not going
to leave, but also feeling excited for the next part of our journey.
On first arrival in Jollyboys I remember thinking back to
how much the girls from last year had loved staying there, and for about the
first week I just kept thinking there was no way I would reach that point with
Jollyboys. But once we got to know our way around properly, got into a routine
and started getting to know the staff better, it really did become like home.
The staff at Jollyboys became like our family out here and we built up
brilliant relationships throughout our stay, with the barman handing me my
lunchtime Sprite before I even needed to ask, the cleaning ladies leaving empty
toilet rolls outside our hut to use at school and the orphanage to make things
with the children, buying a birthday cake for the daughter of one of the staff,
going to yoga with one of the owners, and the other owner even proof-reading my
dissertation for me. Jollyboys was such a major part of my enjoyment of
Livingstone and I think the fact that we crept out at 6am on our day of
leaving, to catch the bus to Lusaka was a good thing. At this time of morning
none of the staff had started work and I think having a big send-off would
definitely have caused some tears.
Leaving our 'family' at Jollyboys |
I was quite impressed with how well I dealt with my emotions
of leaving; as I am known for being a very emotional person, it was quite
surprising that I managed not to cry. Time spent here has helped me to
‘toughen-up’ a bit and apart from one very emotional day of tears (started by watching
a sad film), nearly crying during a phone call with my little sister, getting a
bit emotional after a farewell song from a girl at school, and being on the
verge of tears when trying to pack on our final night in Livingstone, my mood
has general been very happy throughout my time here. This may be the good
influence of Harriet who admitted to being called a ‘cold fish’ before. She has
also been very good at dealing with her emotions, apart from a difficult day
when the internet not working nearly drove her to tears (but I think this may
have really been due to a stressful week of dissertation writing).
When I thought about coming to Zambia I honestly didn’t
really know what to expect. Having never been to Africa, my expectations were
mainly based on what you see on outreach adverts on TV asking people to donate
money to the African people. Time spent here has shown that there is definitely
a lot of need in Zambia, but those adverts, showing crying, malnourished
children and struggling adults, do not even nearly capture the nature of the
people who live here. It is very tempting to write a lot about how little the
people here have, and although that may be true in terms of material things, I
feel it is unnecessary to refer to this so much since I don’t think this is the
attitude that the people themselves have. I rarely heard the local people
complaining or feeling sorry for themselves; most always greeted you with a
happy smile, and just got on with their lives, working and providing for their
families.
Some pictures of the local people who we met in the street and also in one of the villages.
Spending time here has dramatically changed my impressions
of Africa, and has shown me the pride, determination, patience, kindness and
hope in the people of the Zambian nation. As well as becoming more independent,
doing a lot of growing up, and ‘toughening-up’ a bit, I hope that my time here
will have helped me to integrate the qualities that I now associate with the
Zambian people, into my own life when I return to Northern Ireland.
South Luangwa did not
disappoint and the four nights we spent there will no doubt be another
highlight of the trip. I think my favourite part was being woken up on our
first night there by elephants blowing bubbles outside our tent. At 4am we were
both standing on the toilet seat stretching to try and catch a glimpse of the
herd of elephants that had wandered into the camp during the night. This wasn’t
an unusual occurrence and there were even watchmen who walked you to and from
your tent in the evenings just in case you came across an elephant or hippo on
the way. It is also amazing how quickly things become normal, since on the
third day we were walking back from lunch when we saw elephants on the path,
and we simply walked on, taking a different route!
The mention of our
accommodation being a ‘tent’ is used in the loosest possible meaning of the
word, since it was certainly the most luxurious tent I’ve ever seen; being at
least twice the size of our Jollyboys hut, having an en suite, and extremely
comfortable beds. Having our beds turned down and our mosquito nets put up in
the evenings for us was another touch of luxury, alongside the extremely
attentive staff and the tasty food.
Chilling by the South Luangwa river with a buffalo skull!
On top of all this,
there was of course the actual safari part. We were very lucky on our four game
drives; seeing elephants, giraffes, zebra, four types of antelope, hippos,
hyenas, wild dogs, warthogs, lions and a leopard (plus lots of random little
small animals and some of the most beautiful birds). Our safari group was made
up of Harriet and me, our guide Robert who was a fountain of knowledge knowing
everything about everything and teaching me a lot, and some honeymooners. When
we first met the honeymooners we were a bit worried about how ‘coupley’ they
may be and also that we might be intruding on their romantic honeymoon, but
over the three days we all became very close, and we are even planning to meet
them in Malawi. The bride even told us that if they had have had to choose from
a list of a thousand people to spend their honeymoon with, they would still
have chosen us!
Just a couple of our MANY safari snaps!
Unfortunately we had
to leave the bliss of South Luangwa but again the good experiences continued.
After an evening spent in the local village where we ate our last Zambian nshima
and chatted with our last Zambian locals, we made our way to Chipata, via what
must be the bumpiest road in the world. Luckily, we chose a ‘strong’ bus, which
got the whole way to Chipata without any flat tyres; this is apparently very
rare and we heard about some girls who had five flat tyres making the six-hour
journey last fourteen hours!
Leaving Chipata marked
the end of our stay in Zambia and after almost a twelve week stay, I have grown
very attached to the country, its culture and its people. I would easily spend
more time here (other than the fact that our visas only allow for three
months!) but it is time to start a new adventure and hopefully fall in love
with another African country. Hello Malawi!